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In this compelling episode of Big Technology Podcast, host Alex Kantrowitz sits down with Sir Nick Clegg, former president of global affairs at Meta and deputy prime minister of the UK, for a wide-ranging discussion about the future of AI and Silicon Valley's influence in politics. (02:00) The conversation explores the critical challenges facing AI companies as they pursue superintelligence, from the psychological risks of AI companions to the massive financial investments being made without clear paths to profitability.
Sir Nick Clegg is the former president of global affairs at Meta (Facebook) and the former deputy prime minister of the United Kingdom. He is the author of the new book "How to Save the Internet: The Threat to Global Connection in the Age of AI and Political Conflict." Clegg brings a unique perspective having navigated both Silicon Valley's tech landscape and European democratic governance.
Alex Kantrowitz is the host of Big Technology Podcast and a veteran technology journalist who has been reporting on Meta and Silicon Valley for over a decade. He brings deep expertise in understanding the intersection of technology, business, and politics.
Clegg strongly advises that AI companies like OpenAI should not rush into enabling romantic or erotic AI relationships for adults until they have solved the fundamental problem of keeping younger users safe. (03:25) The challenge isn't philosophical but practical - there's still no watertight technological solution for age verification that prevents minors from accessing adult-oriented AI experiences. Companies that proceed without fixing this foundational issue risk facing a massive societal backlash that could be "much greater than it was for the social media apps because the level of intimacy of emotional dependency is gonna be so much greater." This represents a critical lesson for any AI company: solve the protection infrastructure first, then expand capabilities.
One of the most insightful distinctions Clegg makes is that AI companions aren't actually friends at all - they're "friendship as service." (14:10) Real friendship requires emotional maturity, compromise, and the ability to prioritize someone else's needs, even when they're being "a total pain." AI entities, however, adapt entirely to the user without requiring any emotional growth or reciprocal care. This could foster "immense narcissism" and create unrealistic expectations that friends should be available 24/7 in exactly the same fresh-voiced way. The takeaway for professionals is to recognize that while AI companions may have therapeutic value, they cannot replace the complex give-and-take that makes us well-rounded adults.
Clegg makes a crucial point that Silicon Valley leaders are "extraordinarily accomplished technologists and entrepreneurs" but "they're not relationship experts, they're not politicians, they're not philosophers, they're not ethicists." (11:00) Society shouldn't expect them to arrive at the right judgment on complex social and ethical issues, nor should we be surprised when they don't. This means that rather than waiting for tech companies to self-regulate on critical issues like child safety or AI ethics, democratic institutions need to step in and create appropriate frameworks and constraints.
Drawing from a leaked Microsoft memo, Clegg explains how corporate influence in Washington actually works - it's not about buying decisions, but buying "entry tickets" to events where relationships are built. (48:30) Politicians need constant fundraising for weekend retreats and dinners, and corporate PACs write checks to get their representatives invited. Out of these ongoing interactions, relationships evolve and solidify, giving companies access when they need to make calls to policymakers. This system, while legal and transparent, creates a dynamic where the same politicians who attend corporate-funded events can then publicly criticize those same companies - which Clegg argues is actually preferable to giving them a free pass.
Clegg identifies a massive disconnect in the AI industry where hundreds of billions are being invested without anyone being able to explain how that money will be recouped. (32:00) This year alone will see over $100 billion in CapEx from big tech companies, with $1 trillion committed to OpenAI. Yet unlike previous infrastructure booms, this investment "dwarfs anything that happened in the runup to the .com boom." Companies are locked into a spending race where "the surest way to lose is just not to throw as much money as your next competitor," creating what he calls a "spend whatever it takes mania." This suggests a major market correction is inevitable when the economic reality sets in.